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How important is "chemistry"?
abusive relationships, attachment, childhood trauma, dating, dating advice, dating help, dating in your 30s, emotional availability, fear of rejection, healing, healthy relationships, looking for love, narcissist, relationship advice, relationship sabotage, relationship trauma, self-healingMarta Ziembinskachemistry, hot chemistry, falling in love, honeymoon period, you excite me, toxic relationships, healing trauma, unconscious, cycle breaker
Why would anxious and avoidant partners choose each other if their needs are so different?
attachment coaching, attachment styles, avoidant attachment, attachment, childhood trauma, dating advice, dating help, healthy relationships, love, personal development, relationship advice, relationship coaching, relationship help, relationship tips, relationships, successful relationships, secure relationshipMarta Ziembinskaanxious avoidant trap, anxious attachment, avoidant attachment, attachment coach, attachment coaching, attachment styles, attachment needs, attachment issues, relationship trouble, don't leave me, triggers
Are you doing relationships backwards?
baggage, childhood trauma, dating, dating advice, dating in your 30s, dating help, emotional availability, fear of abandonment, eum, fear of intimacy, fear of rejection, find love, healing, healthy relationships, relationship coaching, relationship trauma, relationship tips, single and searching, successful relationshipsMarta Ziembinskarelationships, emotionally unavailable, emotional availability, unavailable partner, limerence, repetitive compulsion, relationship red flags, loe life, love life, relationship anxiety, love addiction, chemistry
You're not broken or damaged
trauma, self-healing, relationships, relationship trauma, relationship help, relationship coaching, relationship advice, personal development, looking for love, healthy relationships, healing, childhood trauma, confidence, self-worth, self-esteem, divorce, divorced, baggage, post traumatic growthMarta Ziembinskanot broken, damaged, emotional damage, baggage, divorced, trauma, trauma healing, trauma informed, self-worth, self-esteem, divorce, divored
Avoidants are as sensitive to signs of not meeting your needs as anxious are to signs of disconnection.
attachment styles, avoidant attachment, childhood trauma, dating, find love, healthy relationships, relationship coaching, relationshipsMarta Ziembinskaavoidant attachment, avoidant, anxious attachment, anxious avoidant trap, attachment styles, attachment issues, attachment coach, secure relationship, healthy relationships, abandonment, meet your needs, needs and wants, attunement
Folks with attachment issues be like...
attachment, attachment styles, childhood trauma, inner child, love, relationships, relationship help, self-healing, traumaMarta Ziembinskaattachment style, attachment, attachment styles, attachment issues, anxious attachment, avoidant attachment, secure attachment, childhood trauma, inner child
We repeat what we don't repair
inner child, relationship help, personal development, narcissist, trauma, self-help, self-healing, healing, childhood traumaMarta Ziembinskahealing, relationships, childhood trauma, inner child, secure attachment, relationship trauma